the OP needs to re read his OP.
you asked a group for their opinions on a topic using yourself as an example. did you expext everyone to pat you on the back?
Yeah... but Peajay, they are altering the scenario to fit the response. I should have made it clearer. this is a serial DI artist. Everyone all of a sudden has a 10 yo son who just started surfing and are getting carried away.
I mean, I could easily turn this into their thread about how much they sound like p#ssies coming to see me cause in their head it was their kid who was doing nothing wrong.
The opinions I was after were about how to handle/confront/ address the issue. Not the make believe situation that they created in their own heads.