No, I don't have taped seams or chest entry. It's up the back long zipper. There are also short zippers on the ankle. Maybe you are right, maybe I just need a better 3/2. I don't know how to pick the right one! Any link of an example of a decent 3/2 under $200?
Right about the ages stuff. I love that surfers from 12 years old and up will talk to me while we wait for the wave. It's so cool and friendly. Maybe they take pity on the old lady

or are awed at the possibilities of aging in such a fun way?