I think you'll be fine in York. It's a little less quaint than other towns, but you'll be close to several breaks. York, Ogunquit (might be the best beach break in So. ME), Kennebunk, etc. Kittery has some spots too, and a nice downtown and restaurant scene.
I'll be the nice guy. The warnings being issued to you are pokes at one of our favorite contributors who hails from York. He's a wild man. If you have a few spare hours search for Charles Taylor.
all these infraction points for minor things that are not even offence makes me sick. i will probably get a infraction point for that. i believe that the mods that were chosen were bias against many of us that probably put them in der place. i vote for a review of the mods due to the fact there giving people infractions over pre existing chips on there shoulders.