so, I am engaged now. my fiance and I live in san diego. every member of both of our families live back in the maryland area.

we have a few awesome beach locations for our wedding if we do it in cali. but I am looking for beautiful coastal wedding sites from as far north as md or jersey and as far south as wilmington area.

obx seems to rugged and lacks emenities. oc md is ok; but I have yet to see a really nice wedding location.

assateque and chincotegue are options, but again;that would be out in the middle of nowhere.

any suggestions? I think wilmington has a few good options, but I've never been. it is a possible relocation site for us eventually, but for now, we don't know much about the coast down there.