I don't surf for you, bro.

Discussion in 'Global Surf Talk' started by MFCondor, Mar 17, 2015.

  1. MFCondor

    MFCondor Well-Known Member

    426
    Nov 30, 2013
    I don't surf for you, bro. I don't surf because I want to be good. What the hell does that mean anyways? It's a superficial way of trying to become something that doesn't exist. Kelly, Taj, Mick, Parko, Medina, etc…are the best. But what the hell is “good?” Weird right? We all wanna be good but what is that bar set at? Good cut backs? Style? Airs?

    If you can do airs but not ride a face….what the eff is the point? Now you all know if you read my post on big(ger) wave fear that I had to come to a point where I just realized I have to surf for me.

    I was at a famed Delaware beach break the other day when I saw this punk kid cussing up a storm because he couldn’t land his lame air reverse. Now before I continue, I'm not dogging on air reverses- just the attitudes that come with some people that can do them. When airs first started they were the thing. You were the man. Now everyone (minus me) can do the damn things. This kids whole day was ruined. He tried on every wave. I can't do them. Admittedly. But it's ok. I don't surf for you, bro.

    I surf for me. I like getting slotted on chest to head high waves. I like floaters and smacking the lip. I like a smooth open face turn. Weird enough, and contrary to lots of modern day surfers, I like talking to people and meeting new friends. I'm not above nor below you.

    I guess the end of my story is- I don't surf for you, bro.
     
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  2. rcarter

    rcarter Well-Known Member

    Jul 26, 2009
    +1,000,000. Great post.
     

  3. DonQ

    DonQ Well-Known Member

    Oct 23, 2014
    I concur, never did and never will. Surfing is a personal thing. Maybe impressing himself or his friends is important to him. GOOD FOR US if we found something we enjoy doing.
     
  4. CJsurf

    CJsurf Well-Known Member

    Apr 28, 2014
    There is no such thing as a "famed Delaware beachbreak".
     
  5. raddadbrad

    raddadbrad Well-Known Member

    Jan 10, 2015
    The thing about being "Good" is doing it all well. I surf for the rad sensations I feel will doin the manuvers or getting the barrel ride. I let the wave predict what I do on it from section to section while putting 100% into every section. That kid was forcing the air and that is lame, he was prob blowing good section for a dif manuver. Theres a reason why he wasnt sticking the airs (not the right section) he was attemping.
     
  6. Zeroevol

    Zeroevol Well-Known Member

    Jun 22, 2009
  7. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    IDK bout youse guys, but I don't pre-plan anything, I just catch the wave and go on my instincts and I try to be creative and spontaneous, but never really think too far ahead and script my waves.
     
  8. Mitchell

    Mitchell Well-Known Member

    Jan 5, 2009
    So the kid was frustrated and pissed off that he didn't land some air attempts. How do you know he wasn't trying them because they mattered to him. I find air attempts fun and landing a rare little "wheelie" air is even better. How could you tell he was attempting airs for someone other than himself?
     
  9. raddadbrad

    raddadbrad Well-Known Member

    Jan 10, 2015
    Exactly my point brutha!
     
  10. Mitchell

    Mitchell Well-Known Member

    Jan 5, 2009
    I definitely go into some sessions with a goal to just try and do some particular thing pretty much at the expense of everything else. Best example - I get frustrated because I feel like I'm usually out on the shoulder and not hanging back to get barreled, because I never have the instinct to check turn or tail stall.

    A couple of times this winter when the waves were smallish and hollow, I made a commitment to drop in, set a line and then tail stall like crazy to slow down and get covered up. The couple of times that it worked out were SO satisfying, because I forced myself to have the presence of mind to drop into a wave and execute something pre-planned. I was grinning ear to ear and nobody was even around to share it with!

    But yeah...99% of the time I drop in and just react to what comes my way on the wave.
     
  11. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Nothing wrong with it. I use to do that when I skated but I remember being so frustrated sometimes when I struggled landing something and not really enjoying myself. Of course when I finally perfected something it was pretty gratifying. I try to enjoy myself every session in the water, so not putting any pressure on myself is more satisfying to me.

    I mean, let's be honest, I won't be competing in any competitions or anything. I do it for the love of it, not to compete with anybody, not even myself. But I can see how it could benefit you to focus on repetition on one thing. As long as you're having fun even in failure I guess it's all good.
     
  12. seldom seen

    seldom seen Well-Known Member

    Aug 21, 2012
  13. Mr.Belmar

    Mr.Belmar Well-Known Member

    Aug 19, 2010
    yea I agree with some of you guys- even rad (cause he's rad)

    Its all about riding the wave.... every wave is different. you just gotta learn to harness the waves energy and maneuver with the wave.
     
  14. sbx

    sbx Well-Known Member

    977
    Mar 21, 2010
    You don't say

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  15. raddadbrad

    raddadbrad Well-Known Member

    Jan 10, 2015
    I was tryin!!! haahahahahaa!!!
     
  16. BassMon2

    BassMon2 Well-Known Member

    Jan 27, 2015
    Yeah man! When I get a good wave or I'm just surfing good, in my eyes, and no one is around to see it....makes it that much better for me. I don't know, something about knowing it I'd just for me makes it feel that much better.

    As far as pre planned maneuvers, not me either. It's all instinct. Iv actually been thinking lately that I should try to attempt a certain maneuver or whatever. I'll have it in my head than the second I hit the water instincts just take over and I forget to try whatever I wanted to try.
     
  17. bubs

    bubs Well-Known Member

    Sep 12, 2010
    K I don't surf for you neither.

    The kid who couldn't land the air reverse doesn't surf for you. He surfs for him or else he wouldn't be out there.

    BTW just about everyone who has progressed enough to air can ride the face.



    I guess you and I are just cut from different cloth because to me the only thing better than doing something is doing it better.

    Keep telling yourself things are "good enough" and you will soon be the jealous surfer posting on a message board to make yourself feel better about your lack of ability................................just get out and surf and keep trying do things....and if you fail and want to curse.....curse your ****ing brains out. Just don't do it to be cool in front of people. Curse for you.
     
  18. daeggman

    daeggman Well-Known Member

    184
    Sep 18, 2014
    drops the mic and walks off the stage
     
  19. Barry Cuda

    Barry Cuda Guest

    I surf for chicks. Chicks dig surfers.
    Actually, I cannot say that anymore, as I have been married for long time.
    But were I young and single....that would have been my answer.
    Everything else would be secondary.......
     
  20. Westy

    Westy Active Member

    41
    Aug 4, 2008
    Agree 100% - if you're not trying new things, you're not progressing. If you're not progressing, you're getting further and further from those breakthrough moments that hooked you on surfing in the first place, and you're eventually going to get bored, bitter or both.