Breakups

Discussion in 'Mid Atlantic' started by Shakagrom, Feb 3, 2010.

  1. Shakagrom

    Shakagrom Well-Known Member

    589
    Aug 22, 2008
    To be honest, i feel like sh1t right now guys. i gotta get my mind offa this crap. any brotherly advice?

    p.s. any negative comments right now wouldn't help. thanks
     
  2. Scobeyville

    Scobeyville Well-Known Member

    May 11, 2009
    There's plenty of fish out there.
    Don't sweat it, chicks are ****in crazy. Bonus, no V-day money to blow, buy a plane ticket somewhere warm
     

  3. eshore

    eshore Well-Known Member

    564
    Jul 22, 2008
    i assume your in high school too? bro dont care about it. i mean if your girl knew you were writing online about her and that sad she would feel in powe. the best thing to do is rub it off your shoulder and pretend like she doesnt exist and find another girl soon. be glad its now and not after v-day and now you can surf more
     
  4. aka pumpmaster

    aka pumpmaster Well-Known Member

    Apr 30, 2008
    yep best thing you can do is move on. find some easy girl and hook up. you'll feel alot better afterward.
     
  5. GoodVibes

    GoodVibes Well-Known Member

    Jun 29, 2008
  6. wbsurfer

    wbsurfer Well-Known Member

    Mar 30, 2008
    this is what i tell my parents and my older sister when they ask me how my love life is. its like a 1 night stand u find a hot girl bang her than in the morning get her number and leave. as if your in a relationship and your walking on the beach and a hot girl walks by you cant check her out or you get slapped so if you do what i say you can walk with how ever many hot girls you want to and check every hot girl out.
     
  7. DaMook

    DaMook Well-Known Member

    868
    Dec 30, 2009
    yeah it sucks man, but go to college and you'll be over her fast. Think about the future and stay way from serious relationships until your a man. Until then, screw everything that walks on 2 legs, because once your married with kids that's all history. :(

    PS wear a rubber, and I don't mean a 5/4 ;)
     
  8. SouthJerseyShred

    SouthJerseyShred Well-Known Member

    82
    Dec 16, 2008

    HaHa nice:D
     
  9. Lanticsurf

    Lanticsurf Well-Known Member

    80
    Nov 11, 2009
    Stay active surf workout hang out with your friends. If you are real torn up about this girl do not jump on the next piece off ass that walks by...the immediate effects are great but it doesn't help in the long run. Been in your shoes before the drama of another girl does nothing but intensify an already sh*tty situation. Best advice is time...in a couple weeks you'll be over it. Perspective is everything...focus on the positive.
     
  10. Inletsurf7

    Inletsurf7 Well-Known Member

    96
    Oct 24, 2007
    Agree with pumpmaster 100%, find some other girl just to get her off your mind and it'll be history, whatever you do, don't make an effort to talk to her or be friends. She'll realize she f'd up, come running back, and then you'll be over her and be able to deny her and feel like a million bucks.

    Things happen for a reason man, maybe god thought you weren't getting enough surf time, get out there this weekend for a snow session!
     
  11. Scobeyville

    Scobeyville Well-Known Member

    May 11, 2009
    Buy a book............
    Title: "I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell"
    Author: Tucker Max.
    It will fix you, haha or make you worse..
     
  12. 34thStreetSurfing

    34thStreetSurfing Well-Known Member

    474
    Aug 13, 2009
    Yeah dude just shake it off... there is no need beating yourself up over one girl. Think of all the sexy surfer girls out there and just straight sexy girls out there... if things were truely meant to be between you two then in the end sh*t will work out between you two... I suggest keeping things on the friend basis with her though just incase... but in the meantime experience the world and all the sexy girls it has to offer
     
  13. oipaul

    oipaul Well-Known Member

    671
    May 23, 2006
    Life goes on, drink a pint of JD and get over it.
     
  14. Don Ride

    Don Ride Well-Known Member

    73
    Apr 2, 2009
    And this too shall pass. This realy helped me - think of the first girl that broke your heart, then how you feel about her now ;)
     
  15. aka pumpmaster

    aka pumpmaster Well-Known Member

    Apr 30, 2008
    " you're having girls problems and I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a ***** ain't one"
     
  16. stoneybaloney

    stoneybaloney Well-Known Member

    May 11, 2009
    Dude you're waaay too young to get bent out of shape over this. I'm sure she's not the first and she won't be the last.
     
  17. LBNJ Local

    LBNJ Local Well-Known Member

    110
    Aug 20, 2009
    On to the next one my friend! The best thing you can do is not pay any attention to the "ex" and go find the next one. The last thing you want to do is let her know that it bothers you, like someone already said; it will empower her.

    All girls are about the chase so whether you want her back or you just want to "get back" at her, you need to go find another girl. The other girl could be a pawn, used only for getting your Ex back. On the other hand, (and this is my favorite) make your Ex feel like **** and rub every girl you bang in her face!

    Confidence is key, go get em brotha!
     
  18. stoneybaloney

    stoneybaloney Well-Known Member

    May 11, 2009
    $20 says someone eventually murders that huge doucher.
     
  19. gromsurfer123

    gromsurfer123 Well-Known Member

    100
    Sep 18, 2008
    going thru the same ****. it sucks dude just go surf, train and stick with close friends. they will always treat you better than girls, plus teenage girls are ****ing insane, sorry girls but you are
     
  20. stoneybaloney

    stoneybaloney Well-Known Member

    May 11, 2009
    That part doesn't change much dude. :D