etiquette question

Discussion in 'All Discussions' started by shablagoo, Oct 16, 2012.

  1. MDSurfer

    MDSurfer Well-Known Member

    Dec 30, 2006
    Dora Rules apply. Enough said.
     
  2. leethestud

    leethestud Well-Known Member

    Aug 12, 2010
    someone does that crap to me I paddle directly in front of him and shadow him, but at the depth that I want to be sitting. When that first wave comes, and he turns around to paddle for it, guess who is sitting there directly in his way giving him the "oh, pardon me" look. Me. He will grumble and paddle away. Unless this is happening at a spot like 1st street, then it's on you for paddling out in that sh*t show and you should just be dropping in everywhere and pounding on your chest like a mad ape. Good luck!
     

  3. LBCrew

    LBCrew Well-Known Member

    Aug 12, 2009
    And in waves of consequence!
     
  4. cepriano

    cepriano Well-Known Member

    Apr 20, 2012
    this is probly the best post iv read on this site.i agree with u 100%there are as$holes in every sport..i would go to a less crowded beach.i always paddle out on an angle.its rude to paddle right through the impact zone when guys are goin for waves.i usually jump in the rip n paddle to the outside on an angle.hint hint:the best waves come off the deep bar next to the rips..if the guy dropps in,id let him take it.surfing is a freesport love n peace,its not worth fighting for a wave.its easier to paddle up the beach and surf alone.i dont rely on others for help.if your afraid to paddle out alone then idk what to tell ya.but if the guy consistinly drops in on u,id return the favor and drop in on them.
     
  5. scotty

    scotty Well-Known Member

    706
    Aug 26, 2008
    To the OP, my thoughts:

    "Then right as I'm about to pop up, I see the guy did end up making the drop, and he's coming down the line at me."

    If someone is already coming down the line toward you, then they have priority whether they paddled out an hour ago or a minute ago. It sounds like you know this...you should have shoulder checked while paddling, and backed out before it came to having to bail and pull your board out of the guy's way.


    "...while everyone else was waiting their turn"

    There is often a rotation that develops in the lineup when there is a single take-off spot, and people are agreeable. If that rotation hasnt developed, then "waiting your turn" pretty much mean "sitting on the sidelines"

    "how do you handle wave hogs?"

    we all have our own ways of coping, and it depends on ability, spot knowledge, lineup vibe, how eggregious the wave hog is being, and a bunch of other factors. A "wave hog" who is just a stronger paddler, and is willing to take off deeper or behind the peak (but making the wave) is one thing. If they are just taking advantage of their equipment to catch more waves, that anothing thing.

    Good luck man. You sound like a good guy.
     
    Last edited: Oct 16, 2012
  6. Henny

    Henny Well-Known Member

    121
    Dec 27, 2011
    That video was already posted... just doesn't apply to crowded us mainland breaks. Places that have a strong local crew that have surfed there for decades. You think they are going to give a guy that's been surfing 1. Year a wave because it's "his turn" ?????? Think again.
     
  7. littlerhody

    littlerhody Well-Known Member

    443
    Jan 16, 2009
    sounds like you got out of his way anyways. If it was small and not firing there was no reason to get mad. I dont think your in the wrong. It becomes problamatic when a person on a longer board wants every wave. they need to share also. I generally know everyone out in the water so we just trade off sets. but if a longboarder or even a funboarder is taking every set I say something like "im goingon the next one" to let them know I am not going to just sit around and watch them take every wave cause they are on a Longboard. now if its waist high and mushy we should all be on logs anyways.

     
  8. McLovin

    McLovin Well-Known Member

    985
    Jun 27, 2010
    The worse on is the guy who has been struggling to paddle for waves for the last hour, then you finally make up your mind to just finally steal one from him, and then he proceeds to give you the death stare as you're paddling back out and you have the :confused: look
     
  9. Henny

    Henny Well-Known Member

    121
    Dec 27, 2011
    "Dibseys on the set wave of my choice, fellas!" How's that work out for ya? ?? :)
     
  10. shablagoo

    shablagoo Member

    12
    Oct 1, 2012
    Thanks for the perspectives. I forgot that pulling out of the wave would create a snowball.

    I wasn't really creeped by the guy or anything...when I realized he was vibin me I just turned away and thought "oh so that guy's a d-bag." Fortunately I don't encounter such characters too often, and all the people I know who surf are extra chill (friends as well as acquaintances from the breaks), so I guess I let the guard down a little and forgot there are in fact a$$holes out there. Duly noted.

    As for "waiting in line" perhaps I stated that too literally. It was particularly crowded over the weekend, and when I got out there, it seemed like people were paddling out, waiting for a few to go by before going for one themselves, etc. Not quite taking tickets at a deli status, but some degree of order.

    Lee, your proactive approach of getting in the guy's way at the takeoff zone is funny, or the dude who talked about shadowing the guy...but I'll reserve that for when I get better and my skills can back up the attitude/save it for worse offenders -- it seems like there is a spectrum.

    Haha yeah we have our share of ****s out here, though I feel like the east coast does too, just different styles of douchery
     
  11. MFitz73

    MFitz73 Well-Known Member

    Aug 21, 2010
    Well don't go away feeling too innocent... you teetered very closely to breaking a surfing etiquette rule... But I think that you are one of the good guys who was caught up in situation that could have been worse..... just like my situation..
     
  12. Treason

    Treason Member

    14
    Jun 9, 2012
    hahah this. dont be lazy whoever has the best position gets the wave.