Kind of. I don't believe in ghosts. I don't not believe in ghosts. But something weird happened. This might get long winded. I never had any type of weird unexplainable experiences. Ever. Then me and my then GF/now wife moved into an apartment a few years ago and things started happening. First thing was this shelf in the bathroom. Picture a slice of pizza. That was its shape. It was mounted in a corner right above the sink. One night we woke up to a loud bang and i found the shelf in the sink with all the stuff on it scattered around. The weird part? There are 4 dowels, 2 on each side that connect the shelf to the support. I messed around with it. Pushing on it. Smacking it. Only way i could get the shelf to budge was to use upward force first. Second thing was this light. In the bedroom the was a window on the south wall and east wall. Lights from cars would sometimes come in from the south window. The east window was the back of the house. Well a light appeared on the east wall. We both saw it. No biggie. But then it moved to the south wall, next to the window where it would come in from. Then moved onto the ceiling and jetted. I can't explain it. Light doesn't make U turns. No mirrors. No nothing. Third thing. Watching tv in bed. Sitting up. I felt somthing on my forehead. Slight pressure. Like some one was touching me with there finger. Thinking my wife was messing with me i stiffened my neck when my head got pushed back despite me fighting it. I look to her... she saw my head fling back but wasn't touching me. I had a red mark on my forehead. Last somewhat normal thing. Laying in bed. Watching tv but had my eyes closed. Was fully awake though. I was listening to a football game and was fully aware of what was going on. I heard my name whispered into my ear. Felt the breath. Shot up thinking it was my wife again. She was sleeping. Now this is where it gets REALLY weird. That night im sleeping. Im laying on my side facing the middle of the bed. Wake up and barley open my eyes to see somthing walking by the foot of the bed. Wifes going to the bathroom. Close eyes. Open them again moments later to see my wife laying next to me. I start to turn my head to look behind me and get up thinking someone broke in. I see a dark figure standing over me. My body froze. I was trying to move but couldn't. Hard to breathe. Couldn't talk. Completly paralyzed as im just looking at this thing standing over me. After a minute or so it just vanished and i could breathe and move. Searched the whole apartment. No one broke in. At this point im like what the hell is up with this apartment. The other things were strange and i couldn't explain it. But this was freaky. After that i saw some other things. I accepted it. I called them ghosts. Half jokingly. Well we moved into a house in August. No weird happenings. Until a few nights ago. Me and wife were talking and she stopped suddenly. Said she thought she saw somthing. Didn't think anything of it. That stuff happens all the time. That night i woke up. Open my eyes and see a dark figure enter our bedroom and slowly move across the room to the foot of our bed. Paralyzed again. Tried yelling my wife's name. Nothing. As it approached the bed i felt this weight on my chest that got heavier as it approached. It got to the point where it actually hurt. I was struggling to breathe. Then it vanished again. Im not saying ghosts. But it's weird. Talking to a friend there's somthing called "sleep paralysis". Hallucinations are common and it's exactly what i describe. But why does everyone "hallucinate" dark figures? Just weird. Discuss. Similar stories? Theories? Am i haunted?