https://pilotonline.com/news/local/article_315f2c22-cf1c-11e8-af02-7fcaf6803062.html VB has quite a few activities every year for the disabled (including wounded warriors) and those with special needs put on by various groups. Surfing is a popular one in the late spring thru early fall.
My wife, daughter, and I did this several years ago and will so again later this month at Dam Neck. It's enjoyable and you're doing something beneficial for the coastal environment. The hardest part for me was trying to ignore the surf. https://www.aqua.org/Conserve/Habitat-Restoration