Wear 5mm pycho five fingers! water was 35* last year, North east! fingers were fine! cant do shatt alone when im wearing anything else! also just wear a R4 5-4!
I had this exact experience with two consecutive pairs of drylocks...it didn't take me two years to stress them out. But yeah...for the first 10 sessions they are best gloves ever!
I end up buying new gloves every two seasons they rip or have holes and ur ****ed. I even use wetsuit repair but two seasons is max it seems.