Be curious to hear about barbados. What's so great about it? Got a 10th wedding anniversary coming up and and thinking about a trip. By the way, here is how marriage goes: engagement to 1st annivesary: marriage is so great, can't believe how lucky I am. Years 2 through 4: marriage is nice, has some ups and downs, but overall pretty good. Years 4 - 7: did bjs go out of style or something? Years 7 -10: now I know why my dad was always so pissed off.