Ball licker is an awesome name. I can can just picture you yelling the dogs name and whose head turns. Your pier: you need to play w the cat bro. Dont worry shell be good to go soon enough. You are full of pent up aggression thats why you cant tolerate wishy washy right now. Ive been changing diapers for 21 years doing middle of the night feedings and everything else that comes along w that. My body hasnt slept more then 4 hours since i dont remember when. If you dont learn how to be wishy washy it wont get any better. As far as two dogs go, its only a matter of time as we will most likely inherit my father in laws high strung dog and my father in law as he has been recently diagnosed w dementia and signs of Alzheimer's.
My first dog here we called Facebiter. As a pup a young girl came up to us and picked him up and went in for a kiss. He sank his needle teeth into her nostrile. kinda hung there for a sec before falling to the ground.