My Apologies

Discussion in 'All Discussions' started by DawnPatrol321, Sep 13, 2016.

  1. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    I wanted to say that i'm sorry to anybody that I offended at the end the 9/11 thread. After re-reading the last several comments, I can see how Yankee or others might have thought I was joining in on OldSoul's "hi-jacking" joke. This was not at all what I meant.

    OldSoul's use of the word "hi-jack" and my use of the word were different, but I now realize that simply using that word at all in THAT thread was an error. This term gets used in almost any thread that gets derailed or hi-jacked. Some use the word derail, some say hi-jack. I meant it in that sense, and not as a play on words like Oldsoul was.

    Furthermore, I misunderstood you Yankee when you asked me if I was being facetious. I thought you were referring to me allowing Oldsoul to "hi-jack" the thread, and didn't realize you were referring to my use of the word hi-jack after he just made a joke using that word.

    I didn't really want him to hi-jack the thread but I gave up on trying to prevent it after several requests to keep the thread on topic, so I threw my hands up and said "whatever" essentially, and that's what I thought you meant by me being facetious. I thought it was about the thread and not the joke. My bad for misunderstanding you, just as you misunderstood me, but when all you have is words on a screen, with no tone or anything else to go by then things can easily get lost in translation.

    I hope this clears up any confusion, but if not, I totally understand and I deserve any flogging I get from the group. Have at me if that's what will make you feel better about the situation. I deserve it.
     
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  2. yankee

    yankee Well-Known Member

    Sep 26, 2008
    OK, that's gutsy to post that DPSUP. I apologize for going DEFCON9 on you.

    I was shocked at what I perceived to be people mocking 9-11, the deaths, someone (not you) asking can we laugh about it....certain things are off-limits IMHO, and that's just the way it is with me. I still believe that we live in a great nation & that requires constant vigilance in the overt ways (military) and the more subtle ways (conviction).

    I always took you for a good dude with his shiiiite together, and so when I saw what I perceived to be your mocking tone in re 9-12, it just really lit me up.

    My apologies for going after you & for what I accused you of in re 9-11.
     

  3. ibc

    ibc Well-Known Member

    Aug 3, 2014
    Hey y'all.

    I said earlier in the 9-11 tread, a tread which was AWESOME DP, that I get scared to say stuff sometimes. It's just so easy to accidentally use a wrong word when discussing something so close to people. It's almost impossible to not slip up, it seems.

    In the spirit of the +++s that came from that terrible day, I say let's hold onto those +++s.

    Go read my post in the doggie tread.

    Peace y'all.
     
  4. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Thank you for this. I mean it from the bottom of my heart. You're my dude and I would never ever do that. Anybody who knows me, really knows me, knows I do not joke about such things. If anything, I get overly upset and heated just expressing myself when I talk about it because that sh*t makes me furious (what they did to our country and our fellow Americans)

    I appreciate you accepting my apology and I accept yours as well. I hope to regain your confidence in my character, although I realize it's probably something that will be on watch for a while.
     
  5. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    You're absolutely right. It's a touchy subject and word usage is important, I failed at that.
     
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  6. yankee

    yankee Well-Known Member

    Sep 26, 2008
    Nah, you're solid with me. Hope to surf with you someday.

    And this is a classic example of how WE take care of our Forume, without mods infarcting, suspending, banning, et. al. Just sayin'.
     
  7. ibc

    ibc Well-Known Member

    Aug 3, 2014
    ^^^ agreed
     
  8. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Back at ya dude. I'm sure we'll share a peak one day. It would be an honor. And agreed on how we take care of the forume, no mods necessary.
     
  9. LBCrew

    LBCrew Well-Known Member

    Aug 12, 2009
    I intentionally stayed out of that tread for that very reason. I have very strong feelings about the subject... some of which a lot of people won't agree with. Good on you both for bringing it back with a completely different tone.
     
  10. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Thanks LB, I just wanted to do something good for what is by far the worst day in our history as a country, but I ended up screwing it up in the end. Live and learn I guess.
     
  11. ibc

    ibc Well-Known Member

    Aug 3, 2014
    Perhaps the best thing here is what Yankee said about self policing.

    Mr Adnim didn't have ta send his smiley faced Orcas to anyones beach, to flash their pearly whites at us unsuspectin surfers. No one had to be eaten alive.

    It's alllll good.

    We need another tropical storm now. Tasty waves fix lots of stuff.
     
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  12. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    +1 And credit to Adnim for staying out of it and letting us handle things
     
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  13. capecodcdog

    capecodcdog Well-Known Member

    Jun 22, 2012
    Right on. it is easy for us to allow the value of life to erode and to become cheapened and callous to human suffering. Like water, we often take the path of least resistance (I use "we" because I am not guiltless in any of this and my 'tude falters at times). This country was founded on principles of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, and these are things that must be vigilantly upheld for all. We are at a point where in general we need to seriously hold life in the highest regard and turn from selfishness to a selfless consideration of others. It would sure solve a lot problems.

    And DP, good on you man.
     
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  14. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Thanks brother. It means a lot coming from you, one of SI's most respected members.
     
  15. Admin-Glen

    Admin-Glen Administrator Staff Member

    747
    Feb 5, 2016
    You guys require the least amount of moderation of any site I admin. It's great to see things getting worked out on their own.

    It took guts to post this thread. Good on you.
     
  16. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Much appreciated Admin. Despite giving you a hard time the other day I think you're doing a great job.
     
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  17. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    Full on eye contact and everything, of course!
     
  18. Zeroevol

    Zeroevol Well-Known Member

    Jun 22, 2009
    Since you guys are on a roll, can you forgive Frosty? LMAO!!!!!!!!! Sorry, I had to throw that in.
     
  19. DawnPatrol321

    DawnPatrol321 Well-Known Member

    Mar 6, 2012
    What did I miss with Frosty?
     
  20. Zeroevol

    Zeroevol Well-Known Member

    Jun 22, 2009
    Him no telling us he couldn't swim.